Even today she feels great refreshing those precious moments. Mama just laughs saying that I used to kick her hard while listening to the hit numbers and could feel the vibe more strongly, making our bond even deeper. It was something very interesting to hear. Yea, it’s true even a baby in mother’s womb can easily connect with beautiful tunes. The power of harmony is awesome.

Don’t you think so?
Time changes, but still my passion for good tunes just goes on. The joy in collecting various genres of songs and enjoying the tune is something which you will not get from any other thing. Even at the young age I started this hobby of collecting various tunes and compositions that touched my heart. Well, today I may not tag it as my hobby rather I live in the world of musical notes. Don’t you feel that good melodies can make you feel happy? Well, I feel totally relieved when am stressed and melodies really turns me on. Those days were really special when I was in love. Each and every lyric of famous hit songs were known by heart. Maybe that was the time I started understanding the lyrics in depth and relate what music is all about.

Gosh! I can still feel the run of Goosebumps thinking about those moments.

      Well, my passion for harmony can never be bounded within mere words. I just know that it touches my soul and warms my heart. It just conquers every emotion of mine. When my mood is off, I listen to songs and feel relieved. When I am too happy, it takes my mood on and on. When stressed out, it just mesmerizes me with its soothing effect.

My favourite instrument is guitar. During my spare time, I love strumming it to the tune that comes to my mind instantly. I don’t know my world is incomplete without beautiful musical compositions. The collections of various albums are the precious and most valuable asset that I keep close to my heart. I am sure you will also having great experiences to share related to music. It is universal and  is there in every individual’s blood. The only difference is that everybody expresses in a different way. My surge for melody never ends and the journey goes on.

How about you guys?  Enjoy beautiful songs, enjoy life to the core.

Income and expenditure is a very complicating topic, as the demands and needs are never ending and the source of income is limited. The income earned is limited and the ways to expend them are numerous. Salary of a person doesn’t increase daily but the expenditure of the person increases daily, so in this situation what can be done.

The way to enhance our income may be restricted, but there are ways to cut down our expenses to some extent, so that we can balance both the plates and live comfortably. But many of us will not be so enthusiastic, while the topic comes to expenditure monitoring and slashing. And it is obviously difficult for the head of the family to meet both the ends. It is strenuous and stressing to cut short our expenses, as while we try to filter our expenses, we may feel that all the expenditure we make are necessary and hence cannot be avoided. But if the situation goes on like this it will lead to bankruptcy, so to avoid this situation, it is better we follow some ways to control our expenses and keep the trouble away:

1. If you are used to living in the so called luxurious life style, and passing on the same to your children then, you need to cut down this extravaganza completely. Make things simpler and play the fair game. Cut down all the expenses that are luxurious but don’t cut down the basic necessities.
2. Play slowly, I mean implement the things are a gradual phase, and not all of a sudden, but your family needs some time to accept this reality.
3. From the beginning itself, be clear about your income and expenditure, and discuss things with your family in group, let them also know the situation and take things under their control, Team effort will work out more efficiently instead of an individual attempt in this regard.
4. Make a budget of the weekly, monthly and yearly expenses by allocating the funds properly and in an organized manner. This way you will know well ahead the surplus or the deficit position. This will enable you plan ahead and implement accordingly.
5. Instead of going to movies in theatres, you can hire a DVD player and watch the movie.
6. If you have some extra rooms in your house, you can let it out for rent and have some extra income.
7. It will be ideal to dine and eat together as the power spent at the dining room will be over in just half an hour, if all eat at the same time, instead of each eating at different time.
8. Try to eat at home instead of buying the junks from out.
9. Plan about your savings well .

WARNING: This article does NOT offer financial advice!

Recognize your trigger aspects:
 In this aspect you will have to find out the things which normally make you angry or which you cannot tolerate.
Few things will trigger your impatience within no time and you need to work out on those aspects clearly and effectively. You should know that everything is under our control and if we handle things in a positive way we can develop patience and solve the things which are not in our favor. When you are able to identify these triggers, you can very easily work out on that and start to cultivate the spirit of patience. Identifying is the hardest part and once you conquer this part, the result will be positive.

Be optimistic:
When you start take things in an optimistic way, you naturally start developing patience. Normally problem begins in the thinking procedure, when it is not accepted the way as they appear. Practicality and taking anything in the high spirit will enable you to be patient all oddest of times. Once you start to take it in a positive manner, you have reached half your goal. 

Breathing:
Whenever you feel you are running into emotions, feeling stressful and have a tightening situation, you need to relax yourself completely and the best approach is to take in a deep breath and practice the breathing exercises. This is an effective way to relax your emotions and control your angriness. This will also bring in purity into your mind and help you to take correct decisions. You can practice this habit everyday and reestablish that calmness every moment.

Right priorities:
At many situations our priorities drive us out of our self and we tend to lose our persistence drastically. This is major driving force to impatience. We need to overcome our priorities and face the life challenges in a positive manner. Changes happen at any time so time is the best heal for any problem and it is in fact the best solution for developing patience.